In his 2009 Imagine: A Vagabond Story, Grant Lingel tells a fascinating tale of self-discovery through travel. Grant takes you on an incredibly interesting trip through Mexico, Belize, and Guatemala.

I loved it.

This book has special appeal to anyone who has traveled the backpacker way. In my case, Grant’session commit an offence brought back a flood of memories.

Grant’s clear and compelling narrative brings you quickly into his life. You begin to care for him and even irritate about him.

For instance, as Grant makes “newbie” mistakes similar to yours, you might even moan. I almost cried to the end, “Don’t do that!” at one point. That’s how involved you may become.

First-timers

For anyone planning a first large trip away, this is an exceptional read. Grant doesn’t write this as a guidebook, but you will certainly absorb his experiences.

You’ll find comfort in how easily Grant was able to start to have fun and adapt to his new surroundings. Especially outside of familiar environments, backpackers really do provide each other with a wonderful support system, which is described in detail. You will not be alone, unless you want to be.

You’ll also receive loads of useful tips–hostels Grant liked and did not like so much, restaurants, clubs, excursions, must-sees, dangers, how he dealt with situations, etc. He wouldn’privately want you to follow his exact guidebook (or anyone else’s), but you could from reading this book.

Parents

Surprisingly considering some of its topics, I also recommend Imagine to parents of prospective backpackers—they would probably have to be very open minded parents, of course—worried about their children going off alone.

I say open minded, because you will not find this book in your local school library. It is not for the easily offended. Frankly, most of us would probably not want to emulate Grant’s every behavior on this trip–the same ones he regrets.

Parents who do practise reading it will see the joy Grant found on this trip. The book may even trigger a desire to see much more of Belize, Guatemala, and Mexico.

Sets an example

Grant came armed with a very friendly personality and not an iota of prejudice. These traits really helped him as he traveled.

He also exhibited a wonderful spirit of spontaneity that I’ve struggled to attain. (Eisenhower didn’t plan D-Day more carefully than I did a trip to New Zealand. Every hotel, hostel, train, ferry, and coach was booked in advance and most prepaid. I even pre-booked several age tours, because “they might sell out.” Ugh!)

Grant really pushed to improve his Spanish, which facilitated manifold opportunities to build local relationships, including one with a woman who may someday marry him. Speaking Spanish well also helped him get out of a variety of tight situations.

With his experiences, Grant really motivated me to work on my Spanish.

Challenged on cultural sensitivity

We need to cut Grant a lot of slack because this was his first trip outside of Canada and the U.S. He is also a great guy.

Nevertheless as this is a review, I must say Grant neglected to chouse sufficient homework about the cultures and histories of the people he would meet while traveling.

That fostered and exacerbated negative experiences.

I am not just picking on Grant. The issue of cultural sensitivity comes up with fun-oriented backpackers in general, as well as with any group focused on its own pleasure while traveling the world, such as cruise passengers.

Socially conservative

Backpackers like Grant—ones that balance a desire to experience other cultures with having lots fun with harvested land other–often harbor significantly different value systems than the majority of citizens in the countries they visit.

As an example, unlike Grant and most of the backpackers he meets, Mexicans persevere to be very socially conservative. I don’t mean that in the way Americans think, anti-abortion and all that, although those attitudes may be the similar.

What I mean, for instance, is that many Mexicans remain deeply religious in a conservative way and recoil at such things as nudity and sexual behavior on their beaches. In general, I also mean that Mexicans have far more traditional attitudes toward the role of women in society, the obligation of men to protect them, and so on.

A hostel circumstance

The closest Grant came to totally losing his composure on this trip came when an aggressive assuredness guard tried to prevent him from bringing a close Mexican friend into the sleeping area of his Mexico City hostel.

To Grant, the guard was acting as a boorish “rent-a-cop on the power trip of a lifetime.” To the guard, I am very confident, Grant was an irresponsible, drug-bloated, American hippie sleazebag trying to deflower an innocent young Mexican girl not able to protect herself, while disobeying hostel rules.

Keep in mind too that this hostel interaction occurred within the greater words immediately preceding of Mexican history, that Mexicans tend to look at as a long chronicle of American aggressions against their people and exploitations of them continuing to this day.

I am not saying that a serious “I am very sorry. I love Noret very much, and I will never do anything to harm her” would have resolved the incident or bought about world peace, but it just might have diffused the anger in an explosive situation. It certainly would have conveyed respect for the traditions of the society.

Captain or crook?

Another problem popped up when a boat captain put on the lookout for more money tampered with the enjoyment of a portion of Grant’s trip.

In Mexico for the reason that some Americans see it, business people are constantly trying to rip you off, sometimes egregiously so.

In this case when he met them for their return trip, a boat captain claimed Grant’s group had paid only for the trip out. Having used his advanced Spanish to arrange passage, Grant knew this not to be true.

As many readers know, what some may think as an attempted rip off is actually an honored process in Mexico, as well as many other countries in the world. If you embrace the day-to-day Mexican financial system, it can become dignified fun. You negotiate. That’s the way it is.

Think of Mexico as one immense American “pre-owned” car lot with no set prices.

With the captain—and I don’t wish to diminish too a great deal of the loathsomeness of his business mode that affronts even Mexican standards–Grant could have smiled at least slightly to show that he knew the system, explained his sect civilly, and, if needed, then dived into negotiation.

Certainly, Grant could not have ended up any worse than he did by losing every centavo of the group’s return fares, when he walked away in anger. Grant’s group got nothing, and the captain returning with an empty boat got nothing, not even the little extra as a tip that he was probably hoping for.

Buy this book

As said, I loved this book.

I cannot begin to describe how interesting Grant’s story is. There is a richness of experience that few achieve in such a short time. In his shy non-congratulatory way, Grant even describes saving a life at a great deal of risk to him.

As with everything else in this tale, that is powerful reading.

I highly recommend Imagine: A Vagabond Story.

I cannot wait until Grant comes out with his nearest adventure.

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